Mac and Cheese ~ One of the Ultimate Comfort Foods
Mac and Cheese is one of the ultimate comfort foods. Sharing one way that our family makes this iconic dish.
Like many kids, the boys LOVE mac and cheese.
Unfortunately, they were also becoming mac and cheese snobs with the boxed mix by Kraft being their favorite with a few store brands being acceptable as a substitute.
Some store brands do NOT come close to tasting like Kraft and they’d let me know if they didn’t like it.

A few times before moving to Alaska, Stephen or I would try our hand at making some homemade macaroni and cheese.
They’d eat it, but always say they’d be happier with the packaged stuff.
Well, seeing that the boxed stuff can run almost $1 per tiny box at the store (no super 4/$1 sales out here on the store brand!), I decided we needed to try making it from scratch again.
The first few attempts just didn’t seem to yield something the boys would devour.
One recipe I tried called for onion which was NOT well received, even by Stephen.
Eventually, I opened up an old, dilapidated copy of Betty Crocker that Stephen’s held onto for years. In the back is a section on sauces.
Game to try another suggested way to make a cheese sauce, I followed the instructions for the basic white sauce.
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Making a Basic Cheese Sauce
Pretty simple…melt butter,

Stir in flour with salt, pepper and any other spice you might be adding.
Simmer on low until thickened.

Add milk and simmer until it thickens.

Add a small pinch of salt (I like sea salt) to enhance the flavor.
Then you add the cheese.
Shredded or small chunks can be used.
A combination of cheeses works best.
A little Velvetta (chunks)
Sharp Cheddar (shredded)
Parmesan (shredded)
even a bit of Mozzarella (shredded)

Stir as it melts.

Tips from Multiple Trials
Well, simple as it might be, this time I got MUCH better results.
Dry mustard is suggested for the cheese sauce. As I only had Chinese dry mustard in the house, that’s what I used in a slightly smaller amount.
One tip included in the sauce recipe is to do the initial simmer of the butter, flour and spices for at least one minute to help lose the flour taste in the sauce.
Hmmm…that’s something I wasn’t really paying attention to when making a white sauce in earlier attempts. I also didn’t add the spices to it
The boys all LOVE my homemade macaroni and cheese now.
An Economical Choice for Mac and Cheese
I double the white sauce recipe from the book to make the white sauce and use about 2/3 pound of medium cheddar cheese to coat 1 1/2 pounds of elbow macaroni.
With the pasta costing about $1 per pound, cheese bought on sale ($5 for 2 pounds of which I used 1/3 of the block), butter (1/2 a stick of butter purchased for $2.50 per pound), 2 cups of 1% milk (milk’s $2.99 a gallon here), and a little salt, pepper, and Chinese mustard, the total cost to make this yummy, filling dish is about $5 for ingredients.
Since I’d be using butter and milk to make the boxed variety, I figure that I’m saving money by making it from scratch. And, even if it was a wash, this macaroni and cheese is truly made with love.
Mac and Cheese
Rich and creamy, this homemade mac and cheese is sure to delight.
Ingredients
- For Sauce:
- 4 Tbsp. Butter (or alternative oil)
- 4 Tsbp. Flour
- dry mustard
- 4 cup milk
- 1 lb. shredded cheese
- salt
- pepper
- Pasta:
- 2 lbs. your choice pasta shape
- Topping (optional)
- 1 Tbsp. melted butter
- 1/3 cup panko bread crumbs
Instructions
- Cook pasta per instructions.
- In saucepan, melt the butter (or warm other oil.) Add the flour and pinch of dry mustard, stir and cook on low for at least one minute.
- Remove pan from heat and add the milk.
- Return to a low heat, stirring frequently to thicken the sauce.
- Once thickened, add cheese slowly. Add pinch of salt and pepper to taste.
- Add sauce to the drained pasta. Either serve directly or put into oven safe dish and top with panko bread crumb mixture or additional cheese and cook at 350 degrees for 20 to 30 minutes.
Notes
You can saute some finely minced onion in the butter for additional flavor (or add a pinch of onion powder). My family does NOT like the onion in their mac. However, we noticed that salt makes a HUGE difference in the flavor. A pinch is all you need.
For milk, I typically use 1.5 cup of dry instant milk powder brought to a volume of 4 cups with cold water.
A blend of cheeses works best.
Now I need to dig out the Italian Mac and Cheese recipe my aunt shared years ago.
I recall making it when P was little and he turned his nose up at it.
But, I remember it as being heavenly and quite a nice change from the cheddar-based mac.
Maybe as their taste buds continue to ‘grow’, they’ll enjoy that variation as well.
Is Mac and Cheese one of your family’s comfort food dishes?
More Family Friendly Pasta Dishes
Here are a few more of our family favorites that include pasta.
Cajun Pasta
Super Easy Baked Pasta
Baked Cheese and Spinach Tortellini
Chicken Cacciatore
Tuna and Spaghetti
Taste the Rainbow Pasta Salad
This post was originally published on Jun 1, 2010 and has since been updated on March 24, 2020.

Yummy! My kids will love it. Laura, really appreciate you linking this up at the Creative Bloggers' Party & Hop ๐
Mac and cheese is one of my favorite foods as well. Yours looks so yummy. I am your latest follower from the blog hop. Hope you stop by and follow me back. Thanks so much. http://www.diybydesign.blogspot.com
it's my fave comfot food, it looks yummylicious!! i'm your newest follower from the Bloggers Party and Hop at TypeASusan at http://tea-diary.blogspot.com
Angie I am over from Blogger Hop I have made mine like that for years.. It is great. The only difference in mine is I used shredded cheese and add what every extra cheese I have.. I pour it in a baking pan with Pam and sprinkle the top w/ paprika..bake it for about 30 mins yum.. My family loves it.
+JMJ+, just let me know if you want all the measurements of ingredients. Keep in mind that they still might have a mini-revolt in the change. But, maybe if they help make it (shred cheese, make the sauce), they'll take ownership and love it.
Same story here, regarding Kraft. I must try this!
Angie ~ it was yummy! I am glad that none of the boys have any food issues so far. Although, I keep telling them that too much of anything is NOT a good thing.
Yummy!Most of us in my house are milk-intolerant, so i am drooling over your photos!!!